It's okay to cry...

It's okay to cry, it really is. Who says real men don't cry? I think it takes a lot for a man to shed tears in front of someone else - the first being courage, if nothing else. Crying is unfortunately and strangely believed to reduce a man's masculinity to...a mustard seed?

Honestly, what would you do if your friend were to break down after encountering a problem that's bigger than the world, sort of? Would you actually be judgemental and pass cynical comments like "Sh*t! Get a grip!" or roll your eyes and secretly think that he's a loser? You wouldn't, right? Instead, I pretty much guess you'll probably be there to make sure that he's gonna be alright, no matter how long he's gonna take, to recover from the hurt, or whatever that is. It's like this:

"我在你眼里

看见流下的泪水

这时我明白了

人生有时辛苦，有时流泪"

[Loosely translated into: I can see the tears in your eyes and then, I understand that life is sometimes hard, and sometimes, it just makes you cry.]